Abuse, Neglect, and Self-Neglect
What to look for, how to ask, and what mandated reporting actually requires of you personally.
You see things no one else in the care team sees. You are in the house, you notice what has changed since last week, and you are often the only professional the patient sees alone.
That access is why clinicians are mandated reporters — and that obligation is yours personally. It is not discharged by telling your supervisor.
The types
Physical — hitting, rough handling, inappropriate restraint, withholding mobility aids.
Emotional or psychological — threats, humiliation, isolation, controlling contact with others, treating an adult as a child.
Sexual — any sexual contact without consent, including with a person who cannot consent.
Financial exploitation — misuse of money, property, or benefits. In home health you are unusually well placed to spot this, and it is the most common form in older adults.
Neglect — a caregiver failing to provide food, hygiene, medication, medical care, or a safe environment.
Abandonment — desertion by someone who had taken on care.
Self-neglect — the patient is unable or unwilling to meet their own basic needs. It counts as reportable in most states, and it is the most common category in home health.
What to look for
Physical signs
- Injuries that do not match the explanation
- Bruising in unusual places — inner arms, thighs, torso — or in patterns like grip marks
- Injuries at different stages of healing
- Pressure injuries in a patient with a caregiver who says they are being turned
- Unexplained weight loss, dehydration
- Poor hygiene, soiled clothing or bedding, untreated conditions
- Medication not given, or too much given — an opioid supply running out early
- Overmedication to keep someone quiet
Behavioural signs
- Fearfulness, flinching, watching the caregiver before answering
- A caregiver who will not leave you alone with the patient
- A caregiver who answers every question for the patient
- Withdrawal, or a marked change in mood or engagement
- Reluctance to talk about home life
- Depression, anxiety, or fear that is new
Financial signs
- Unpaid bills when there should be money
- Sudden changes to wills, deeds, or account access
- A new person taking close interest in the patient's finances
- Missing possessions
- Benefits going somewhere else
- Patient unaware of, or confused about, their own financial arrangements
Environmental signs
- No food, or only spoiled food
- Utilities cut off
- Hoarding, infestation, animal waste
- No heat or cooling
- Medications absent, expired, or unfilled
How to ask
Ask alone with the patient. If the caregiver will not leave, that is itself information — find a reason: a bathroom assessment, a walk to check the stairs, a request for a glass of water.
Ask plainly and without alarm:
- "Is there anyone at home who makes you feel unsafe?"
- "Has anyone hurt you, or handled you roughly?"
- "Is anyone using your money without asking?"
- "Are you getting the help you need with meals and washing?"
- "Do you ever go without your medication?"
If they disclose: listen, believe them, do not interrogate. You need reasonable suspicion, not proof. Do not confront the suspected person — it can escalate the danger the moment you leave.
Self-neglect, and capacity
The hardest cases are patients who are declining help while living in conditions that are hurting them.
Self-neglect is not the same as an unconventional life. A person who has always lived frugally and is content is not neglecting themselves. The question is whether their basic needs are going unmet and whether they are able to make and act on that choice.
Where capacity is uncertain, it is assessed — not assumed from how the house looks. Involve the physician and the MSW. A competent adult has the right to make choices you think are unwise; a person without capacity has a right to protection.
Either way, document what you observed and what you did.
Reporting
Report on reasonable suspicion. Investigating is someone else's job.
Know your state's hotline number and the required timeframe — both are in Who to Call for What
Missouri runs two separate hotlines, and they differ only in the last four digits:
- Adults (elderly and disabled) — Department of Health and Senior Services: 1-800-392-0210
- Children — Children's Division: 1-800-392-3738
Most of our patients fall under the adult hotline. Check which applies before you dial.
Also notify your Field Supervisor, but making that call does not replace your own report
Notify the physician
Reporting in good faith is protected
Documenting
Objective, specific, and free of conclusions:
- What you observed — location, size, and appearance of injuries; the state of the home
- What was said, in quotation marks, and by whom
- Who was present
- Who you notified, and when
- What you did to keep the patient safe
Weak: Suspect caregiver is neglecting patient.
Strong: Patient found in urine-saturated bedding; states last changed "two or three days ago." 4 cm Stage 2 pressure injury to sacrum, new since 9/10. Weight down 11 lb in three weeks. No food in refrigerator except expired milk. Son present, stated he "can't be here every day." Patient stated quietly, while son was outside, "I don't like to ask him." Reported to [state agency] 14:20. Dr. Reyes notified 14:45. Field Supervisor notified 14:50.
If the patient is in immediate danger
Call 911. Do not leave someone in immediate danger while you work through a reporting process.